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Research actually suggests that people who ask more questions are better liked by their conversation partners than people who ask fewer questions. Oluo was convinced into writing a book by her agent, who conceived of a "guidebook" in which Oluo answered questions she regularly received on social media chhat addressed in her essays.
Statistics are used to support the book's arguments. A question can either kick off a conversation or keep it going, Sandstrom says. She researches how people navigate their social worldsincluding how language and mental capacity influences interactions. Research shows the opposite, however, dant people nearly always are willing to engage in a conversation when prompted by someone else.
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Oluo responded that future editions of the book would instead use the term "indigenous peoples". She thought that white readers would "gain insight" on the book and found that the book's tone and use of di address made reading an "intimate experience".
Oluo was reluctant to spend so much time writing about race, but was inspired after beginning to ask people what issues they face when talking about race and hearing the responses of people of color. Our fear assumptions fail to take into the social norms of politeness, Schroeder says.
Focusing the attention on the other person in those moments can help us get past those awkward spots, she says. You get better at asking better questions, and answering with more interesting responses. Bhatt found "no ambivalence or soft-pedaling" in the book, praising Oluo for being Horny women in Webster, KY when discussing her personal experiences.