Last week, her children - Steven, 19, and Sarah, 16 - described her as "a great mum and wife, much-loved daughter, loving aunty and sister-in-law and a great friend too".
The boy, from Accrington, who cannot be named because of his age, appeared at Blackburn Magistrates' Court. He is accused of murdering the teaching assistant between accrintgon August and 24 August.
Mother-of-two Lindsay Birbeck, 47, was cjat for almost two weeks before her body was found at Accrington Cemetery, Lancashire, on 24 August. Paying tribute to Mr Sodagar, who was from Accrington, his family said he "put smiles on many faces" and was "best known for his positive energy, always bringing people together, a believer in love and a man of good morals and principles".
Hundreds of people ed searches for Mrs Birbeck when she disappeared from her home in Huncoat, Accrington. He suffered serious injuries and was pronounced dead at the scene, Lancashire Police said. Related Topics Accrington From other local news sites.
The Peugeot was later recovered from Lemonius Street. The teenager was remanded into secure accommodation ahead of a hearing at Preston Crown Court on Tuesday. Related Topics Huncoat From other local news sites.
The two year-old men have been arrested on suspicion of causing death by dangerous driving. The pair, from Accrington, are being held in police custody.
Police have appealed for information and said officers were keen to trace the driver of a black BMW car, who orom believed to have witnessed the incident.